What I've Learned

I've learned that I judge myself by my best intentions but that I am judged by my worst acts.

I've learned that terrible things will happen but that I can overcome any tragedy.

I've learned that winning really isn't everything and that there is no real victory without honor.

I've learned that when I fight fire with fire, all I get is the ashes of my own integrity.

I've learned that kind words really matter but it takes a conscientious effort to be kind -- and that thoughtless comments and badly timed criticisms can cause serious hurt.

I've learned that I have to remind myself to be grateful for all I have -- and that forgiving is much harder to do than to say.

I've learned that happiness is much deeper and enduring than pleasure and that I am solely responsible for my own happiness.

I've learned that the surest road to happiness is good relationships and that to have good relationships, I've got to be a good person.